A train wreck we bring on..

2 of September 2010 Thursday
May our Father above bless you for reading today? Ameen
You know, I wonder about this: why do women get so upset with the other women in the lives of their men? Why do women assume that it is the other woman’s fault, which a man has gone astray, without talking to her because she is taking on the word of that man? For example the man tells the woman he is seeking that” “NO” I am not involved”.” I am NOT married”. Moreover, there are no signs on the out to show that he IS involved. So why is that? Why women do not talk to one another about this?
All we seem to do is get very upset and angry with her instead of being calm and ask why what did he say to you. I truly believe that we as women let the rage and angry out on the one who was the bystander in all of this. We need to ask our self;
“What have I not done to keep him in our home?”
“Was it me or him?”
“Was I not sexual enough because of my hang ups?”
“Is there true communication in our lives?”
“Do I know that marriage is to be for life?”
Wow, I must be angry or hurt for writing this out. I think it is because I trusted a man and got burned, way down deep to my heart and soul. Therefore, I needed to ask myself the above questions, because it happened to me. Moreover, this went on for almost 3 years wow, how stupid are we women that we assume it is the other woman’s fault?
Well, just thoughts for the day.
Thank you for your time to read this hope it makes some kind of sense.
Sherri